{"id":2247,"date":"2021-10-04T16:17:40","date_gmt":"2021-10-04T14:17:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fresh.papatya.org\/?page_id=2247"},"modified":"2021-11-21T13:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-11-21T12:40:23","slug":"i-am-kept-abroad-against-my-will","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/papatya.org\/en\/i-am-kept-abroad-against-my-will\/","title":{"rendered":"I am kept abroad against my will"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;4&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;10&#8243; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2><span lang=\"en-GB\">You\u2019re looking for help<\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\">because you are kept against your will in the country your parents came from<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\">because you are told to marry somebody against your will<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\">because someone took away your passport and your mobile phone<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\">because you are locked up and threatened somewhere abroad <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span lang=\"en-GB\">Maybe there is help at hand!<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">On this website, you will find important information and ideas on how you can change your situation. <strong>Please note: Our possibility to support girls, who do not have the German nationality OR have\/had a German residence permit is very limited.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"zettel-link clearfix rotate-2\"><a href=\"#be-discreet\">What you can do to improve your situation now<\/a><\/div>\n<p style=\"clear: both;\">Do you have limited time on the internet? Than contact us directly and send us information about your situation.<\/p>\n<div class=\"zettel-link\"><a title=\"Contact us immediately\" href=\"#sofort-kontakt-aufnehmen\">Contact us immediately<\/a><\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;45&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;379&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;9&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; el_class=&#8221;graupapier&#8221; row_name=&#8221;be-discreet&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2><span lang=\"en-GB\">Be discreet and don\u2019t rush things!<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span lang=\"en-GB\">Your safety is what is most important! Don\u2019t do anything which can make your situation even more dangerous.<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span lang=\"en-GB\">Don\u2019t get caught <\/span><\/strong><span lang=\"en-GB\">when you are secretly looking for help on your mobile or computer<\/span>. <a href=\"\/en\/anonymous-browsing\/\">Pay attention to our hints on how to browse anonymously<\/a><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\">Dress, behave and do what your family demands of you. Don\u2019t quarrel with you family and do not let them find out that you are searching for help.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\"><strong>Try to buy time.<\/strong> When you are supposed to get married, try to prevent or delay the wedding. Once you are married, you will not be able to leave some countries without your husband\u2019s consent.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\"><strong>Be patient \u2013 <\/strong>it can take weeks to organise your return. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\"><strong>It\u2019s important to plan well ahead<\/strong> when fleeing abroad. Wait until there is a really good opportunity. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span lang=\"en-GB\"><strong>Never run away unprepared<\/strong> \u2013 this could endanger your life. For example, never go spontaneously to an embassy or to the local police. Your family could get hold of you or the authorities could send you back them. Such spontaneous actions could be the reason that you are under surveillance even more or get punished. <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;51&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;539&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;8&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; el_class=&#8221;liniertpapier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1637498401294{padding-bottom: 36px !important;}&#8221;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2>What you can do<\/h2>\n<h3><span lang=\"en-GB\">You are in a very difficult situation, stuck abroad against your will. But don\u2019t panic!<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">It is very important that you think about every step you take and read our tips on what to do. Every case is different, every country has different laws and only you can guess what your parents might do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">To help you to understand what steps might be helpful in your situation we have prepared an emergency plan on how to return. Take your time reading it and prepare yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"zettel-link clearfix rotate-1\"><a title=\"Contact us immediately\" href=\"#sofort-kontakt-aufnehmen\">Contact us immediately<\/a><\/div>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_vertical=&#8221;bottom&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;85&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;474&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h2><span lang=\"en-GB\">Emergency return plan<\/span><\/h2>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">1. Stay inconspicuous!<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">When your family find out that you have secretly contacted someone for help, your situation could get worse. You could be locked up or only be allowed to leave the house with someone accompanying you. They could take away your telephone or your laptop. Better try to adapt to the situation and stay inconspicuous. This will improve your chances to prepare you flight and return.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;left&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;64&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;137&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; inverted_device_order=&#8221;yes&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;right&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; align_horizontal=&#8221;align_right&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;73&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; alignment=&#8221;right&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;175&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">2. Take care that you can access the web<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">You can send text messages via the web to contact people who can help you. Delete all traces you have left in the web! For this you can change your browser settings to <a href=\"\/en\/anonym-surfen\">private browsing<\/a>.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">3. Find out where you are<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">You have to find out the exact location where you are and figure out how to get to the nearest city, to an aid organisation, to your Embassy etc.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;left&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;29&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;190&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; inverted_device_order=&#8221;yes&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;right&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; align_horizontal=&#8221;align_right&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;42&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; alignment=&#8221;right&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;300&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">4. Get your passport and save some money<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">5. Find out about local support<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">In some countries there are people or organisations that can help you. An Embassy can assist you, too. Contact them beforehand, so that you don\u2019t end up in front of closed doors or get sent back. This could make your situation worse.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;left&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;55&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;200&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=&#8221;0&#8243; override_padding=&#8221;yes&#8221; h_padding=&#8221;2&#8243; top_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; bottom_padding=&#8221;0&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;7&#8243; bottom_divider=&#8221;gradient&#8221; inverted_device_order=&#8221;yes&#8221; el_class=&#8221;papier&#8221;][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; position_horizontal=&#8221;right&#8221; position_vertical=&#8221;middle&#8221; align_horizontal=&#8221;align_right&#8221; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_single_image media=&#8221;62&#8243; media_width_use_pixel=&#8221;yes&#8221; alignment=&#8221;right&#8221; media_width_pixel=&#8221;222&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=&#8221;100&#8243; gutter_size=&#8221;3&#8243; overlay_alpha=&#8221;50&#8243; shift_x=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y=&#8221;0&#8243; shift_y_down=&#8221;0&#8243; z_index=&#8221;0&#8243; medium_width=&#8221;5&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243;][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span lang=\"en-GB\">6. Be patient and don\u2019t rush things!<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"en-GB\">In order to achieve your goal, you need good planning and stamina. 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