{"id":2730,"date":"2021-10-30T18:36:42","date_gmt":"2021-10-30T16:36:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fresh.papatya.org\/?page_id=2730"},"modified":"2021-10-31T22:23:12","modified_gmt":"2021-10-31T21:23:12","slug":"papatyada-bir-guen","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/papatya.org\/tr\/papatyada-bir-guen\/","title":{"rendered":"PAPATYA’da bir g\u00fcn"},"content":{"rendered":"

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PAPATYA’da bir g\u00fcn<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Sabah sekizde<\/strong>, gece n\u00f6betine kalm\u0131\u015f olan sosyal \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmac\u0131 Maya k\u0131zlar\u0131 uyand\u0131rd\u0131. Kriz evinde g\u00fcn\u00fcn her saati bir sosyal \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmac\u0131 oluyor. Sekiz bu\u00e7ukta herkes kahvalt\u0131 masas\u0131na oturdu,\u00a0 nas\u0131l uyuduklar\u0131 ve og\u00fcn kimin d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131 veya kimin randevusu oldu\u011fu konu\u015fuldu. Jasmin hala \u00e7ok yorgun. PAPATYA’daki ilk gecesiydi ve bir odada tek ba\u015f\u0131na uyumak zorunda kalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in mutluydu. Geni\u015f evde sekiz k\u0131za yer var: bir adet tek ki\u015filik, iki adet 2 yatakl\u0131 oda ve bir adet 3 yatakl\u0131 oda bulunuyor. Jasmin, gecenin yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yatak kom\u015fusu Sara ile konu\u015farak ge\u00e7irdi.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcn<\/strong> Jasmin, \u00f6\u011fretmeni taraf\u0131ndan gen\u00e7lik acil servisine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f ve ard\u0131ndan PAPATYA’ya getirilmi\u015fti. Erkek karde\u015fi okulda onu bir erkek \u00e7ocukla g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc ve \u015fimdi ailesi bunu \u00f6\u011frenirse olacaklardan \u00e7ok korkuyordu. Evde \u00f6nceden de\u00a0 stres vard\u0131. Gen\u00e7lik Acil Servisinde bir PAPATYA \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 telefonda kurallar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131: Her k\u0131z cep telefonunu teslim etmek zorundad\u0131r, dairenin adresini kimseye veremez, ziyaret\u00e7i kabul edemez ve sadece izin alarak d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kabilir. Herkes en ge\u00e7 ak\u015fam yeme\u011fine kriz evine d\u00f6nmek zorunda. Her k\u0131z, k\u0131zlar i\u00e7in ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir telefondan telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi yapabilir ve ayr\u0131ca bilgisayar\u0131 kullanabilir. Ancak d\u0131\u015fardan k\u0131zlara ula\u015f\u0131lamaz. \u00a0Jasmin kurallar\u0131 kabul etmi\u015fti, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcvende olmas\u0131 onun i\u00e7in \u00f6nemliydi.<\/p>\n

Sara’n\u0131n i\u015ftah\u0131 yok. Heyecanl\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu sabah ailesiyle gen\u00e7lik dairesinde bulu\u015facak. Ailesi telefonda a\u011flad\u0131 ve de\u011fi\u015feceklerini s\u00f6yledi. Sara’n\u0131n gitti\u011fini hen\u00fcz kimsenin bilmedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylediler. Sara eve geldi\u011finde hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015f gibi yeniden ba\u015flamak istediklerini s\u00f6ylediler. Sara, ailesinin ger\u00e7ekten de\u011fi\u015fip de\u011fi\u015fmeyece\u011finden emin de\u011fil. \u0130ki sosyal \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmac\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeye giderken kendisine e\u015flik etmesinden memnun.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=”100″ gutter_size=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ shift_y_down=”0″ z_index=”0″ medium_width=”3″ mobile_width=”0″ width=”1\/2″][vc_single_image media=”2710″ media_width_percent=”100″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ column_width_percent=”100″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”8″ bottom_divider=”gradient” inverted_device_order=”yes” el_class=”graupapier” row_name=”onlineberatung”][vc_column column_width_percent=”100″ gutter_size=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ shift_y_down=”0″ z_index=”0″ medium_width=”3″ mobile_width=”0″ width=”1\/3″][vc_single_image media=”1665″ media_width_percent=”100″][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=”100″ gutter_size=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ shift_y_down=”0″ z_index=”0″ medium_width=”5″ mobile_width=”0″ width=”2\/3″][vc_column_text]Saat dokuzda <\/strong>PAPATYA’da ev idaresi, yemek ve al\u0131\u015fveri\u015ften sorumlu T\u00fclay geldi ve kahvalt\u0131 masas\u0131nda yerini ald\u0131. \u0130ki k\u0131z sofray\u0131 toplay\u0131p bula\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 makineye yerle\u015ftirdi. Herkes ev i\u015flerini \u00fcstlenmek zorunda; kimin ne yapaca\u011f\u0131 her hafta yeniden belirleniyor. Daha sonra k\u0131zlar \u00f6\u011flen yeme\u011fine ne pi\u015firelece\u011fini T\u00fclay ile konu\u015ftular. Sonra k\u0131zlar\u0131n her biri bir yere da\u011f\u0131ld\u0131. Sara du\u015fa girdi, iki k\u0131z T\u00fclay ile al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Jasmin iki ki\u015fiyle birlikte mutfaktaki b\u00fcy\u00fck masada oturmaya devam ediyor. M\u00fczik dinliyor ve ka\u011f\u0131t oynuyorlar. Jasmin k\u0131zlarla biraz daha kayna\u015f\u0131yor.\u00a0 Daha \u00f6nce, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n da evde onun ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131na benzer \u015feyler ya\u015fayabilece\u011fini hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnememi\u015fti.<\/p>\n

N\u00f6beti biten Maya saat onda <\/strong>eve gitti ve yeni \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar i\u015fe geldi: Johanna, Sevda ve stajyer \u015ehirin. K\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra Sara, anne-baba g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi i\u00e7in Johanna ve Shirin ile birlikte gen\u00e7lik sosyal dairesine gitmek i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Sevda, Jasmin\u2019i ba\u015fvuru g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesini yapmak i\u00e7in dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k odas\u0131na davet eder.\u00a0 Jasmin ona hayat\u0131n\u0131, ailesini ve evden neden ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131r. Sevda, Jasmin’e bundan sonra hangi ad\u0131mlar\u0131n at\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klar:\u00a0 Sorumlu gen\u00e7lik dairesinden g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme randevusu al\u0131nacak. Bu randevuya Jasmin\u2019le birlikte gidilecek.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ca Sevda, Jasmin\u2019in okulunu arayacak ve Jasmin\u2019in \u015fimdilik okula gelemeyece\u011fini bildirecek. Ne okul, ne gen\u00e7lik dairesi ne de anne babas\u0131 Jasmin’in tam olarak nerede oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenemeyecekler. Jasmin, hayat\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l devam etmesi gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek i\u00e7in huzura ve zamana sahip olacak.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row row_height_percent=”0″ override_padding=”yes” h_padding=”2″ top_padding=”2″ bottom_padding=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ gutter_size=”3″ column_width_percent=”100″ shift_y=”0″ z_index=”7″ bottom_divider=”gradient” el_class=”papier” row_name=”onlineberatung”][vc_column column_width_percent=”100″ gutter_size=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ shift_y_down=”0″ z_index=”0″ medium_width=”5″ mobile_width=”0″ width=”1\/2″][vc_column_text]Yakla\u015f\u0131k oniki bu\u00e7ukta<\/strong> \u00f6\u011fle yeme\u011fi var. Yeme\u011fin tam ortas\u0131nda Sara, Johanna ve Shirin geldiler. Herkes anne-baba ile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesinin nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fini merak ediyor. Sara, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi atlatm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in rahatlam\u0131\u015f ve evde neye dayanamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 babas\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne s\u00f6ylemeyi ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in gurur duyuyor. Babas\u0131 ona amcas\u0131n\u0131n evinde ya\u015famay\u0131 teklif etmi\u015f. Sara bunu kabul etmezse, gen\u00e7lik dairesi, Sara’y\u0131 bir gen\u00e7lik grubuna yerle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ailesinden izin isteyecekmi\u015f. Sara, ailesinin bunu kabul edece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyor. B\u00f6yle bir durumda PAPATYA’n\u0131n yard\u0131m\u0131yla Vesayet Mahkemesi’ne ba\u015fvurabilirmi\u015f. Sara, babas\u0131n\u0131n mahkemeye \u00e7\u0131kmak yerine imzalamay\u0131 tercih edece\u011fini umuyor.<\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011fle yeme\u011finden sonra<\/strong> bir\u00e7ok k\u0131z\u0131n acelesi var. Saat 14’ten itibaren d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kabiliyorlar. Jasmin bug\u00fcn daha evde kalmak zorunda. Sevda, anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n gen\u00e7lik dairesinde nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bekleyip \u00f6\u011frenmek istiyor. Jasmin d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak istemeyecek kadar korkuyor. En iyi arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 aramak ve ailesinin onu okulda aray\u0131p aramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sormak istiyor. Jasmin, Sevda’ya kendisinin de ailesiyle g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek zorunda olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soruyor. Sevda, bunu de\u011ferlendirmenin hen\u00fcz zor oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor, ancak Jasmin’in sonraki ad\u0131mlar\u0131n planlanmas\u0131nda daima yer alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n

K\u0131zlar saat 15’ten itibaren televizyon izleyebilir ama bug\u00fcn Jasmin, Amina ile balkonda oturup erkek arkada\u015f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok daha heyecanl\u0131 buluyor. Zaman h\u0131zla ge\u00e7iyor ve aniden saat 19:00 ve di\u011ferleri geri geliyor. Nora da geliyor – gece n\u00f6betine kalacak olan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan.<\/p>\n

19.00’da <\/strong>ak\u015fam yeme\u011fi var. Ak\u015fam yeme\u011finden sonra k\u0131zlar\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131 Nora ile el i\u015fi yapmak i\u00e7in mutfakta kal\u0131yor, di\u011ferleri televizyon izliyor ya da k\u0131zlar telefonundan konu\u015fuyor. Saat 22.30’da Nora herkesi yataklar\u0131na g\u00f6nderiyor. \u00a0Jasmin art\u0131k odas\u0131nda ve kendini \u00e7ok garip hissetmiyor. Uyumadan \u00f6nce uzun bir s\u00fcre Sara’yla f\u0131s\u0131lda\u015f\u0131yorlar.[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column column_width_percent=”100″ gutter_size=”3″ overlay_alpha=”50″ shift_x=”0″ shift_y=”0″ shift_y_down=”0″ z_index=”0″ medium_width=”3″ mobile_width=”0″ width=”1\/2″][vc_single_image media=”1667″ media_width_percent=”100″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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